Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus conversation... hehehe with my best internet buddy

Charlie Bay : Can I ask you something?
Charlie Bay: Why are girls so emotional? me: lol
me: its in the genes
me: i mean
me: its in the hormones
Charlie Bay: they take something that is a mole hill and turn it into a moutain
me: there's this stage thats difficult for a girl
me: yeah
Charlie Bay: i got mad at my gf
me: Why?
Charlie Bay: so i sent her a sms
Charlie Bay: saying "Thanks for not telling me where your going until the last minute"
Charlie Bay: then she tried to call me back and txt me but i just wasnt in the mood to answer Charlie Bay: then i left to go study at the bookstore
Charlie Bay: she freaks out
me: hmmm
Charlie Bay: and she waits at my door for 45 minutes
Charlie Bay: knocking
me: ow thats bad
Charlie Bay: thinking im home and just ignoring her
Charlie Bay: crying really really hard
Charlie Bay: even when i let her in
Charlie Bay: she is still crying for like 2 more hours
Charlie Bay:
me: ic
Charlie Bay: drove me insane
me: hmmm
me: i dunno
Charlie Bay: do u get that emotional?
Charlie Bay: thats just over the top
me: sometimes when a girl cries all she needs is a hug
me: or an embrace
Charlie Bay: lol that didn't help
me: thats me
Charlie Bay: then i tell her not to come over
Charlie Bay: and she comes over anyways
Charlie Bay:
me: lol
me: told u to try reverse psychology
me: maybe it works on her
me: hehheeh
Charlie Bay: so what do i do
Charlie Bay: tell her to come over
Charlie Bay: haha
me: yup
me: experiment on it
me: hehhheheh
me: lol
Charlie Bay: if i tell her to come over then she will
Charlie Bay: haha
me: sometimes i drive my guy crazy
me: lol
me: but i stop when he turns sweet
me: and hugs me
me: thats all i need
Charlie Bay: then theres personal stuff that makes me mad
Charlie Bay: i'd only tell u about it
me: lol ok
me: lol
Charlie Bay: but after we mess around and such usually ur done and u rest for a while
me: ahh ok
me: mess around is having sex?
Charlie Bay: well she keeps wanting to do more and more and more
Charlie Bay: and i dont want to
Charlie Bay: yeah
Charlie Bay: i'm down
me: lol
me: hahhaha
me: thats normal
Charlie Bay: and tired
me: girls have unsual sexual drive
Charlie Bay: i just want to rest
Charlie Bay: and hold her
Charlie Bay: yeah apparently
me: well
Charlie Bay: well my others werent like that
me: u have to meet half way
Charlie Bay: she goes over the top lol
me: to satisfy one another
Charlie Bay: well i do a little
Charlie Bay: but she keeps wanting more and more and more
me: u were her first right
me: that maybe is why
Charlie Bay: yeah pretty much
Charlie Bay: i like satisfying her
Charlie Bay: but when a guy is down he is down
me: hahahah
me: yeah i understand
me: theres a book u gotta read
me: read
me: woman are from pluto guys are from mars ( correct one is man are from mars women are from venus)
Charlie Bay: its no fun trying to make out more and more afterwords.lol
me: i forgot the exact title
Charlie Bay: ahh i heard of it
me: lol
me: something like that
me: u gotta read that
me: give her a copy too
Charlie Bay: why ?
Charlie Bay: how will it help?
me: coz it talks on woman and man differences
me: how to understand each other
me: well we talked about that in our sexual educaton in college
me: so yeah im not surprised
me: lol
me: the priest even asked us one by one
me: how long do we wanna have sex
me: lol
me: could u believe that coming from a priest
me: hehhehe
me: well he was just trying to make a point
me: comparing the girls answers from the boys
Charlie Bay: lol i see
Charlie Bay: yeah kinda shocking im looking at the book now
me: hahah
me: ok
Charlie Bay: does it talk about our differences in sex?
Charlie Bay: grrr shes calling me and sms me in yahoo
me: i think so
Charlie Bay: i want time alone now
me: honestly i havent read the book yet
Charlie Bay: oh okay
me: just an overview
me: its a great book they say
me: best sellers
Charlie Bay: sometimes i don't want to call her every day
me: payday is far away
me: so yeah no book
me: heheheh
Charlie Bay: haha ahh
me: yeah i understand
Charlie Bay: ill get u the book if u like
me: my bf used to say to me
Charlie Bay: i'm sure i can download it for free
me: do we have to see each other everyday
me: when he came home
Charlie Bay: i dont mind talking
me: lol
Charlie Bay: but i get sick of the "i miss u, i wish ur here, all the time"
me: yeah
me: ahh ic
Charlie Bay: i mean we are adults now
me: i know my bf would feel the same
me: if i was like that
me: all the time
Charlie Bay: yeah
me: actually he did
Charlie Bay: i like it a little but i need time for myself
me: lol
me: before he left
me: so i figure out
me: i dont text him much now
me: i dont email him a lot
me: now
me: and when he comes home
Charlie Bay: ahh i see
me: ill give him the free time he wants
me: lol
me: i bet he will come running after me
me: hehehehe
Charlie Bay: man ppl are screaming in my apartment
Charlie Bay: shutup!
me: lol
me: why
me: neighboors?
Charlie Bay: i dont know
Charlie Bay: yeah
Charlie Bay: grrrr she's calling me again
Charlie Bay:
Charlie Bay:
me: lol
Charlie Bay: is it bad i feel this way meme?
me: u like the attention dont u
me: lol
me: hahha me: admit it
Charlie Bay: no it drives me insane
Charlie Bay: i dont like a girl crying in from of my apartment door when all the neighbors see her and think im crazy
me: hmmm
Charlie Bay: and i just like to be by myself sometimes
Charlie Bay: to recoupe
me: lol
me: hehhehhehe
me: now its opposite of what u had the last time
me: hehehhe
Charlie Bay: i live an extremely stressful life right now
Charlie Bay: hows it the opposite?
me: You could just talk to her about your work
me: how it is
me: all the pressure
Charlie Bay: oh she knows
Charlie Bay: well thanks for ur good advise meme
Charlie Bay: im off to bed
Charlie Bay: im tired me: lol me: ok Charlie
me: good night
me: i miss my guy
me: lol
Charlie Bay: nighty
Charlie Bay: oh i bet u do
me: sometimes i pretend he is infront of me
me: and say the things i want to say
me: lol
me: of course when no one is around
Charlie Bay: well ur miss is different then my gf miss
me: other wise they think im foolish
Charlie Bay: im sorry meme
Charlie Bay: i know u miss urs truely coz he is gone for extreme long times
me: yeah
me: when i used to work in a bank
Charlie Bay: my gf and i just dont see each other for like two days and she is flippin
me: seeing him after work was like a vacation
me: a relief Charlie Bay: i bet
me: yup me: i dunno
me: why i still hold on to him
Charlie Bay: ill not call and say i feel asleep
Charlie Bay:
me: lol
me: hahah
Charlie Bay: coz he means good for u too
me: ur bad Charlie
Charlie Bay: he just doing the best he can for everyone
me: lol
me: yup
me: i know
me: i miss him so bad
Charlie Bay: i bet meme
me: sometimes when my missing him is so bad
Charlie Bay: thanks for always talking to me, ur the best
me: he calls unexpectedly
me: its like he knows
me: that i miss him
Charlie Bay: ur my best online friend
Charlie Bay: well good
me: lol ur the best too
Charlieme: my best online buddy
me: hehhehe
Charlie Bay: in his case he needs to call
Charlie Bay: at least every few days
me: nahh i understand if he doesnt
me: it cost much
me: its funny sometimes
me: he knows if theres someone courting me
me: lol
me: he feels it
me: i know that coz he tells me
me: and ask me
me: if theres someone trying to court
me: of course id deny that
me: coz it will make him worry
Charlie Bay: hahahaha You should say there is
Charlie Bay: so he realizes how good you are Charlie Bay has signed out. (11/5/2008 11:51 AM)
me: night Charlie

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

i laugh at the conversation because it also happens, though not the "mess" part...

that's the reason whenever i hear partners having an LQ, i just go away, and NOT TAKE SIDES because man and woman are different from each other...

That's why i told my lady once that, "i just take our quarrels as learning experiences, not a baggage..."

In my past experience, and in previous church, i'm having difficulty with my previous relationship because pag nalaman nilang may LQ, sa babae kaagad ang kampi...hindi naman tama yun di ba...people should treat quarrels as an indication of difference between man and woman (wala lang sakitan)...

Good post, girl

Emely said...

Thanks for your comment Whirlwind.

Yeah your right. But it can be fun too sometimes. The quarrel. lol ... Just kidding. Anyways, its a normal process everyone undergo to.

When your in a relationship or even in a certain organization when theres someone new, the partners go thru some adjustments, settle differences. It just depends on how far the two are willing to adjust u know. Meet half ways of what is acceptable to both parties.